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I remember exactly the beginning of her love-life change. I needed to do one more solution talk for my training. And that´s when I met her, by pure coincidence. Let´s call her Alica.
Alica liked reading my articles on the internet. She was also intrigued by the very simple way of looking for taylor-made solutions. But she hesitated to try it. There was always something more important than herself.
I answered her question how I was with the standard answer „great“ and I was also quick to add that I only have a few hours left to find a client for a solution talk, which I had planned to analyze in the evening. To be precise, to analyze myself in the role of the coach.
„Well, you can try with me if you want“ she added, modestly. Another proof that no meeting is a coincidence! Anyway, she was sitting opposite me at my home that evening and… I felt like crying.
To cut the story short – she is 33, very pretty, successful in her job, she takes amazing care of her household. Moreover, she has a beautiful relationship with her family. She is the woman who gives more than takes. She always finds a way how to help others.
And so she was helping those unhappy men who married wrong women and had children with them. But for Alica, so they said, they were ready to leave their wives, because Alica was really worth it. With her, everything would be different, better, it would be the real thing.
Yes, she was worth it. For a few hours a week. So that they could spend the time in-between with those bad wives. Once she ended one „relationship“ like that, she was in another „relationship“ of the same kind in no time. With a married, unhappy, disillusioned man – again. But married, above all. She wasn´t the one who wanted to break something. The men had their lives and marriages broken before they met Alica.
And so the time had passed and Alica, being 33 years old, had never had a real relationship. A relationship where for him she would be the one and only. And she was starting to realize that it cannot continue like that. A momentary happiness made her sad in the long-term. And lonely. But she didn´t know any other. She didn´t know what it was like to fall asleep and wake up with a partner.
There was noone to introduce to friends, parents and there was no way she could rely on someone when she needed it. On the other hand, she was also aware of the advantages of her situation and those were the reasons she didn´t want to give up on this life for such a long time. Couples she knew were actually in a much worse situation than herself, the „second“ one.
After approximately an hour, Alica left knowing exactly what and why she will do and how she will do it.
Because she realized what she wanted.
We didn´t meet after that. Until yesterday. She was radiant. She is already living with Him. With the real one. Available, nice, intelligent and funny. And caring. Her parents and friends like him. And his parents like Alica. She showed me his picture – they fit to each other!
How did she do it?
How was she able to leave what she endured, but also enjoyed, for all those long years? She wrote me an email (and gave me a permission to share it with you):
“In the discussion with Katka I said out loud for the very first time what I didn´t want. And, likewise, what I dreamt of.
Who would have thought that thoughts, dreams and desires said out loud, along with the right questions from Katka, can be so powerful.
I would have never dreamt of how radically my whole life would change after one single discussion with this nice person. She showed me the road, I took it and thanks to that I am now living my dream. I am so grateful for that!
I believe now that saying what I really want is actually the first and the most important step forward… If you are at the crossroads of your life or you have doubts what is the right thing to do, I advise a discussion with Katka.
However, don´t expect answers from her. She´s only asking the right questions. You will realize that you have all the answers within you, you just can´t access them. Just one discussion with her can help you find happiness and the right road.”
“Thanks to you, Katka, I live my dream!”
Have a nice day, Katarina – happier by a small bit again +421 903 709 599