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If everyone knew how much they can change their lives from the moment they stop trying to solve what doesn´t need solving, then…
As a personal coach I have long been a witness to how much energy my clients put into trying to solve what is not necessary. It is so exhausting that they don´t have time, energy and will to solve what really needs solving.
I will not analyse here why it is so. I will also leave the analysis of typical problems of today´s world – whether at home or in business, to professionals and experts for problems. I focus on solutions, on discussions about solutions of which aim is finding real solutions to real problems.
Real solutions. Which ones are they? Are they the ones which are being spread as good and proven tips and tricks on social networks? Or good and proven advices from your loved ones? Or the ones somebody else tells you at some kind of a training? General good advices which work for everyone?
Well, and that´s when reality kicks in. Your reality. Your world. Your character. Your possibilities and limits. And, in most cases, you are again at the beginning. Those most important notes from that training, which you might start practising one day, are still lying somewhere on your desk. And in the meantime, without a doubt, another tips, tricks and advices how to lead a better life keep on flooding in from status updates of your friends on social networks.
But, why are you not living a better life?
There may be several reasons for that. For example:
Your circle of friends and relatives is not always helping you to achieve what you want
Or, not even you really know what you want
Experts tell you what they would do in your place – but are they really in your place?
Most of people don´t really listen to you after a while. There is another „film“ running in their heads. They don´t think of you but about themselves.
What seems to be a good advice from somebody else, doesn´t work. You refuse it. But when you yourself come up with the same solution, it works. How is it possible?
Well, just so that I don´t seem to be refusing all those good advices – which I always get as well! Once, I took a note of the following one:
„When you are writing the story of your life, don´t let anyone else hold your pen.“