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Tips and tricks how to improve your life are flowing even from water pipes nowadays – or so it seems. Everywhere I look somebody is offering 5 guaranteed pieces of advice, 3 tips, 8 ways, 21 methods that are working 100%…. it´s shouting at us in bookshops, from magazines, newspapers, on the internet. Nowadays, you can also download them as e-books. And for free even! You just need to register. So that you can be getting further advice, tips and tricks.
I also have a new set of 30 pieces of advice how to live better.I have brought them – probably as an old habit – from a weekend conference in one of the most modern hotels in Bratislava. I attended the conference along with a lot of other people who want to move forward in their lives, just like me. During one of the sessions I decided not to continue listening to the talks anymore and I left – feeling quite angry, to be honest. And they say I am a calm and content person.
Immediately, I took a pen and a paper and started to write another piece for my solution focused blog. But, in the end, I decided to make a stop to this negative energy and negative mood. It´s me who makes decisions! So instead, I prepared lunch and laid out the table – a habit I will not give up even if we were eating in a tent.
And so my life continued, with noted and quickly evaporated 30 pieces of advice how to live a better life – from somebody else. While they were evaporating, further tips and tricks were coming along my way – naturally. I thought to myself – they must be useful when they are everywhere around me. When there are more and more of them and more nicely wrapped than the previous ones. But – I am definitely closing this chapter of my life with the conclusion that it is your decision if and to what degree you will follow these tips and tricks.It is us who know how much are the tips of others applicable and sustainable in our professional or private life.
Well! So this is where this blog is actually starting now. Sustainability.That´s what is echoing here right now. Because I, just like you, am living right here, right now. I am living with my experience, character, abilities, possibilities and opportunities, work status, partner, habits and bad habits. What I´ve learned about myself, thanks to coaching sessions is that:
If I don´t find my own tips and tricks for my life or problem, I can keep on trying what others tell me to do and what others could be successful at – but they are not walking in my shoes anyway.
To begin with, 1 tip or trick is enough. The point is that it should be our own, created by us.
I can see in my clients´ lives that it really works – and that makes me really satisfied and happy. And it was small things – find the time for yourself, don´t listen to others. They create their own planswhich they follow at their own pace. On their life journey, they move in a new way. The difference is that they have their own and sustainable tips and tricks.
At home, I sometimes open a random book at a random page. And I look at a random line or thought – one which at that particular moment can be actually really useful. I have done this just now, after I finished my new blog on Let´s talk together. In short, this is what was written there: “You have come to this world to create your own plan how to save yourself.”
I love such coincidences. I couldn´t end this blog in a better way.